Wednesday, August 22, 2012

A Year of Dates: May



For our date in May we went to one of our local state parks, Rock Cut State Park. This park is really nice.  There are things to do there year round with hiking, biking, fishing, boating, swimming, picnicing, and camping to do in the Spring, Summer, Fall and snowshoeing and cross-country sking in the winter. 


We chose to go on a little hike, have a picnic by the lake, and then hit up the consession stand for a little treat.

At 12 months you...

 
20 lbs 11 oz    30 1/2 in

* eat just about anything
* say "daddy" "doggie" "boon" (balloon) "bye-bye"
* take a few steps at a time and stands alone
* had your first Birthday party which was Seasame Street themed




Wednesday, May 16, 2012

A Year of Dates: April


For the month of April we went to Nicholas Conservatory  & Gardens in Rockford.  There was a Monarch Butterfly exhibit going on this month.  They had a part of the conservatory netted off so the butterflies could fly around freely.


We were able to catch some and look at them up close. 



The rest of the conservatory was beautiful too.  They had some butterfly topiaries, a fish pond, and of course other beautiful foliage.


Thursday, April 19, 2012

At 11 months you...


* are crawling on all fours
* are crusing around the furniture
* are eating pretty much all big people food
* sign "more"and "please"
* love putting things in buckets or boxes
* you definately know what you want and will throw a fit if you don't get it
* clap and dance anytime you hear music

Sunday, March 25, 2012

A Year of Dates: March

Can you tell where we went? Yes that's right...we went bowling. It was my turn again to pick what we did and I wanted to do something active. It was a lot of fun!
As you can see Ryan won...in fact he won both games. I did get a few strikes in though.
My arm got tired on the second game but Ryan was able to keep his game steady! We both also were distracted by the middle schooler in the lane next to us who kept bowling game after game without stopping!
Isn't my hubby so cute?

A Year of Dates: February

For the month of February we ended up going to see "The Vow". It was the first movie we had been to since last June when we took Teagan to see "Cars 2". I liked the movie, but finding out that it was inspired by a true story not based on a true story made me curious about the real story of what happened to this couple.
Afterward we went to Starbucks and ended up running into a couple that use to go to our church and two girls I went to college with (who incidently went to the same movie we did). We hadn't seen any of these people for quite awhile so it was nice to catch up.

Monday, March 19, 2012

At 10 months you...

* go from army crawling to sitting up
* eating meats and some dairy and loving everything we give you to eat
* stands while holding on to something
* got your top middle teeth at the same time
* signs-more, milk, bye, and please (on occasion)
* starting to explore the house more


Wednesday, February 22, 2012

At 9 months you...

19 lbs 3.5 oz 28 3/4 in.
* are army crawling and go from sitting to your stomach
* wave bye-bye and say "bye"
* try to repeat me when I ask you to say "MaMa" (comes our baba but you're trying)
* take two good naps during the day and are still sleeping 11 hours at night
* love to splash in the bath
* gives high-fives

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

A Year of Dates: January

For Christmas this last year Ryan and I decided to for go the usual gift giving, partly to save money and partly because we are redoing our basement and I'd rather have that done than a whole bunch of little gifts. So I brought up the idea of planning dates for this year as our gift to each other instead. Dates or spending quality time together had not been a priority the past couple of years especially since our second child, Elijah, was born. We have definatly felt the effects of not having "US" time and now was the time to change that!
We each took six months of this year and are planning a date a month.
I was the first one to plan a date and that was for the month of January. In planning my dates I did try to be as creative as I could with things we don't normally do and try to do it cost affective! So January was Starbucks and Barnes and Noble. I thought we could get some warm drinks b/c of the cold weather and then just browse through some books.
We first went to Red Lobster for dinner. We happened to get a gift card for Red Lobster from my parents for Christmas, so dinner was on them! (Thanks mom and dad!)
After dinner we headed over to Barnes and Noble. I was looking for a book to replace one I had gotten for Christmas that I already had and then we just wanted to have a look around. As you can see in the next picture we didn't end of getting warm drinks. It was too stinkin hot in that store for that!
I did find my replacement book! I had read "Crazy Love" by Frances Chan and loved it so I thought I'd try another one of his books.
We also checked our the Bargain racks. I really wish we would've gotten the Sesame Street book. It was the history of Sesame Street and would have come in handy for Eli's birthday!
I wander what the plan will be for next month?!?!?!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Hair Cuts and Kids Meal

Eli and I got haircuts today. Doesn't he look like a big boy now?
Since Teagan sat and played quietly and nicely while we got our haircuts I told him we would get McDonalds for lunch. He asked if he could have a "Kid Meal". I said yes and then I told him that at McDonald's they're called Happy Meals. He said "No Mama it's a Kids Meal"

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

At 8 months you...

* sit up all by yourself
* can feed yourself puffs and baby crackers
* are starting to hold your own when it comes to your brother bothering you
* are a dancing fool when music is turned on!

Saturday, January 7, 2012

At 7 months you...

* eat veggies and fruits along with your cereal
* are starting to sit by yourself for a few minutes at a time
* are a rolling machine
* have had major surgery on your skull and were a rockstar through the whole process!
* signs milk and waves bye-bye

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Day 3 Coming Home

On Friday November 25 we had been in the hospital just 48 hrs and the nurses came in to tell us we could go home! What?!? We were told we would be there 3-5 days! We couldn't believe we were already going home. Eli woke up happy and ready to play. His eyes were puffy but not swollen shut. He was doing great! The nurses told us that the neurosurgeon's nurse practitioner would be down to change his bandage and give us some instructions for at home.


Reading some books while waiting to be discharged.


When the nurse practitioner came in to change his bandage we asked her about us going home early. She said that usually with most kids by this time in the process his eyes would've swollen shut. The fact that they hadn't and that he hadn't been on much pain medication except Tylenol were both good signs for his recovery and that there was no need for him to stay. Instead of putting another turban on when she changed his bandage, she just put a piece of gauze over the incision and then a net stocking over that to keep it in place. The nurses told us when our one week post-op check up would be and then said we could go.



Teagan showing Eli his new car. They were just hanging out until we got our stuff packed up.


Since we've been home Eli has done awesome! The first morning his left eye was pretty swollen, so much so that he got a black eye, but since then the swelling has continued to go down! Until a few days ago he did seem to freak out if he was left all alone in a room and he's still not comfortable rolling, but he is loving playing in his exersaucer and his bouncy seat. He has even started sitting without any support.


Align Left


One week post-op. (age: 6 1/2 months)


We have our one week post-op appointment tomorrow morning. We're looking forward to hearing what the doctors have to say. We'd like to thank you again for all of your prayers and support! They definitely did not go unnoticed!


Thursday, December 1, 2011

Day 2 in Hospital/Thanksgiving

Eli woke up on Day 2 in the PICU a little swollen but not bad. The doctors had told us that each day would progressively get worse so to be prepared. Dr. Iskandar came to check on him and he said that he would get a new turban because his was getting a little snug. He also said that he could move to general care. After that he proceeded to have more wires unhooked and by 11:00 am we were moving rooms.
Our families started showing up and we discovered that someone had provided a Thanksgiving dinner for anyone on the 4th floor (the floor we were on). It was a full spread, including dessert. It was nice to all be able to sit down and enjoy a Thanksgiving meal together. While we were eating lunch we had left Eli in his room to take a nap. I checked on him a couple of times right after I had laid him down and he was asleep each time I checked. I went and told the nurse that we would be in the lounge if she needed us and explained that Eli was sleeping (later she told me she had checked on him not long after that and he was sleeping). My brother even went in the room to get something a little later than that and he was sleeping. As soon as I finished eating I went to check on him again and when I walked in he was still asleep but his turban was on off and so was the gauze that was protecting his incision! So I went and got the nurse to ask her if she knew what had happened and she didn't. She went with me to check on him and after seeing him she said she would call someone to come and redo his turban.


Waiting to get a new turban.

It was the first time we got a really good look at his head. And just as the plastic surgeon it was pretty lumpy bumpy! When the doctor came to redo his turban Ryan was just joking around and said something about giving him a chin strap so he couldn't get it off. The doctor took him seriously and gave him one!

With his new turban...chin strap and all!

As the day went on his swelling did get worse but he didn't seem to be in much pain. The nurses continued to give him Tylenol but he hadn't had Oxycodone since 4:30 am. The whole day he was such a good baby. He would play in his bed for awhile and then he would want to be held and play with Ryan or I. He loved having all the family around and getting to interact with everyone.


Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Eli's Surgery

So my intention was to update Eli's progress while we were still in the hospital. The two days we were there were very busy and we actually came home a couple of days earlier than expected. A week later we would still like to tell you how everything went and how he's progressing now.

This first day is written by Ryan.

On Tuesday November 22 we started our journey by heading to the UW Children’s hospital to have Eli’s type and cross lab which is where there check his blood type and put an ankle band on him. This assigns the blood to him in case a transfusion is needed.
We then went and checked into the Ronald McDonald house to stay the night before surgery and since only one parent can stay at the hospital I would be spending the nights there.


Operation Day
We arrived at the hospital at 7:15 in preparation for the 8:30 surgery. We were checked in to the pre-OP room and then got to talk with several nurses, anthesialogists, and our two surgeons. Questions were answered and the days schedule was given. We were blessed with two wonderful surgeons, Dr. Iskandar – Pediatric Neurosurgeon and Dr. Mount – Pediatric Plastic Surgeon. We asked about the length of surgery and Dr. Iskandar said they would be done by lunch otherwise they would get hungry and need to take a break. Both Drs. did a great job of making us comfortable with the procedure. The whole time this was going on we had a very happy baby.









Around 8:50 it was time for him to be taken back to the operating room and ReneƩ got suited up to carry him back. She got to hold him as he drifted off to sleep. We were then off to the waiting room where we had a great support group of family and friends.
We were told that it could take an hour or so to get set up and they would let us know when the surgery started via our pager. After an hour and a half we decided to ask for status and found out our pager wasn’t working and that they started the operation at 10:20 and everything was going great.
We continued to hang out in the waiting room and found that technology made the wait easier. There were smartphones and Ipads in use. It helped to see all the prayers and well wishes.



Then at 11:45 a nurse came out and told us that everything was going great and they had started to close.
Next thing we knew the surgeons walked out around 12:30 to see us and tell us everything was done and went very well. They explained what they ended up having to do. Dr. Iskandar also stated that they took a vote in the OR and they decided to make him look more like Mom than Dad. A surgeon and a comedian. All joking aside, both of the Doctors were great, very personable and down to earth. We were told that he was in recovery and that we would be able to go see him shortly.
Around 1:00 Renee and I got to go back to the recovery room and see our Little Elijah. He was still asleep when we got there and had a little turban on. The surgeons even put a tigger sticker on it. He started to respond to our voices by cracking his eyes and squeezing our fingers. We then got to talk with the recovery nurses and the head anthesalogist who both said that he was doing very well and did perfect during the surgery. He then had to have some blood drawn to check his levels. After he started to come out of the anthesia, he was moved to the pediatric ICU.





Once we got up to the PICU we were met by several nurses and doctors who went over things with us. The attending had some concerns of him being anemic and pale. He talked to us about him possibly needing a blood transfusion, and that we would find out when the blood test results came back to see if his hemoglobin level has went up. After the results came back it was determined that he needed a transfusion. It was pretty amazing to see how much his color changed and he started to perk up during and after the transfusion which took 4 hours.




By night time of the first day he had really perked up and was playing with toys and we even got a smile out of him. It was amazing to see the changes he went through in the course of a day. He was one tough little guy.